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The Questions of Jesus: Challenging Ourselves to Discover Life’s Great Answers

Most people think of Jesus as the one with all the answers. John Dear’s new book, “The Questions of Jesus,” suggests that Jesus is instead the one with all the questions, questions which have remained unanswered for two thousand years. In this new collection, John offers a 2-3 page reflection on 125 of Jesus’ questions. In these times of fear, anxiety, war and violence, this book may help us reflect on the Gospel, and understand anew the mind and heart of Jesus. The book is available on November 16th at bookstores everywhere; please buy copies for your friends and family and help to promote John’s new book! Here are the first three questions and reflections from the book:

What are you looking for?
(John 1:38)

“What are you looking for?”

The first question Jesus asks does not address our sins, failures or infidelity. It is not accusatory or hostile. Rather, it is a question rooted in compassion and love, calling upon our deepest desires, the best within us. It is a question full of hope.

“What are you looking for?”

John’s Gospel begins when John the Baptist tells two of his disciples that Jesus is the Messiah. “Behold the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world,” he says, pointing to Jesus. The two disciples immediately begin following Jesus. When he notices these two followers, Jesus turns around, looks them in the eye and asks, “What are you looking for?” He does not reject them. From the start, he is interested in them. He draws them out. He gets them to articulate their hopes and dreams. He is willing to listen to them. He shows them loving kindness.

Those first disciples are caught off guard by Jesus’ disarming question. So they ask him a question. “Where are you staying?” Always inviting, Jesus welcomes them into his life. “Come and see,” he says to them.

What is it we are looking for in our lives? A good place to begin our daily meditation is to sit in silent peace with the holy desires within us, and to imagine Jesus looking at us with loving kindness and asking, “What are you looking for?”

What would we say to Jesus? As we look at him, as we feel his sincerity and love, and as we notice his lack of judgment or anger, we can let those deep desires surface and be spoken. Seeing the love in his eyes, we know that he will not laugh at or reject us. We know that the best within us comes from God, that God has given us everything that is holy within us, and that he will affirm whatever holy desires we seek.

What is it we want? What do we truly desire? Life is short and precious. What are we most looking for in the remaining years we have left? If we can sit with his question for days and weeks, we will discover, perhaps to our astonishment, that we are not looking for money, power, fame, or control. We are really looking for love, goodness, truth, peace, happiness, justice, mercy, and joy. We are looking for meaning. We are looking for God. We are looking for Jesus.

St. Ignatius Loyola, the founder of the Jesuits, knew, even in the sixteenth century, the importance of holy desires. He taught that every time we pray we should ask God to give us “what it is we are looking for.” The Buddhist monks of Tibet also recognize the spiritual wisdom of knowing what it is we seek. For thousands of years, their dharma was based in the understanding that the spiritual life begins by naming what we truly want.

Our deepest desires hold great power. If we can name them, unleash their goodness, and channel those desires toward God, then our lives will be transformed. We will begin a journey toward God, into the mystery and peace of God, and become servants and friends of God.

If we listen to Jesus’ question, name the pure, selfless, loving desires that lie buried in our hearts, and tell Jesus what we are looking for, he will listen and beckon us into a whole new life where those holy desires will be realized. If we dare say that we are looking for him, that we want to be with him, that we want to follow him, we can trust that he will invite us to join him on his journey and lead us to where he lives.


Why are you looking for me?
(Luke 2:49)

According to Luke’s Gospel, when Jesus is twelve years old, he goes with his parents on the annual pilgrimage to Jerusalem. Afterwards, he stays behind without his parents knowing it. When they realizes he is not in their caravan, they return to Jerusalem in a panic, searching everywhere for their boy.

After three days, they find Jesus in the Temple, where he sat “in the midst of the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions.” Already at his young age, Jesus behaves like a rabbi, listening and asking questions. “All who heard him were astounded at his understanding and his answers,” Luke reports.

“Son, why have you done this to us?” his mother asks. “Your father and I have been looking for you with great anxiety.” The poor parents are worried, stressed out, and angry. They probably feared that something terrible had happened to Jesus, perhaps that he had been kidnapped or killed. But they do not respond with corporal punishment, verbal abuse, or humiliation. Rather,

Jesus’ mother asks a simple yet serious question.

But Jesus has just spent three days arguing the fine points of the Scriptures with the highest religious leaders in the holiest place on earth. Although he is just twelve, he has already become a spellbinding teacher, an extraordinary rabbi who listens, asks questions and gives remarkable answers. So Jesus in return asks his parents a pointed question: “Why are you looking for me?”

Luke records that his parents do not understand what Jesus is saying, but that he returns home with them.

It’s a good question. If we sit with it, we may hear Jesus’ desire to know what motivates us–and we find ourselves, likewise, unable to answer.

Over a billion people claim to be followers of Jesus. More books have been written about Jesus than any other person in history, and more books have appeared about Jesus in the last thirty years than ever before in history. In recent years, portraits of his face have appeared on the cover of nearly every major U.S. magazine.

Why are we looking for Jesus? Each one of us has a different answer. We look for Jesus because he is the most authentic person who ever lived. We look for Jesus because we feel his compassion for us. We look for Jesus because in his humility, suffering, forgiveness and death, we see pure selfless love. We look for Jesus because deep down we believe he is alive, that the resurrection is true, and that he will help us through our personal brokenness and global catastrophes. We look for Jesus because we hunger and thirst for God and we believe that he embodies God.

In the end, we may say simply, “Jesus, we are looking for you because we love you, we need you and we want to be with you.”


What do you want me to do for you?
(Matthew 20:32; Mark 10:36 and 10:51; Luke 18:41)

The most frequently asked question of Jesus is also the most beautiful. “What do you want me to do for you?”

In Matthew’s account (20:32), the mother of James and John approaches Jesus and bows down in homage before him. “What do you wish?” Jesus asks her. In Mark’s version (10:35), James and John themselves approach Jesus and say boldly, “Teacher, we want you to do for us whatever we ask of you.” Their selfishness does not faze Jesus. “What do you want me to do for you?” he asks them. In both cases, James and John want to sit by his side in heaven. They want to be in control, to dominate, to be God. But Jesus says that position is “not mine to give.”

But Mark’s Jesus keeps asking the question. In the next scene, Jesus hears a blind beggar named Bartimaeus call out to him, “Jesus, Son of David, have pity on me.” Against the disciples protests, Jesus calls him over. Immediately, the beggar throws aside his cloak–which would have held not only all the money he had collected, but constituted his sole possession–he jumps up, and runs to meet Jesus. Seeing this, Jesus places himself completely at the disposal of the poor man. “What do you want me to do for you?” he asks. “I want to see,” Bartimaeus says. “Go your way; your faith has saved you,” Jesus answers. His sight is restored and Bartimaeus begins to follow Jesus “on the way.” Luke tells almost the same story (18:41).

In both Mark and Luke, Jesus’ question to the blind beggar occurs soon after Jesus is challenged by a rich official who wants to enter eternal life as his rightful inheritance. When Jesus invites him to sell what he has, give the money to the poor and follow him, the rich man turns away sad. Mark even records that Jesus “looked on him and loved him” as he invited him on the discipleship journey.

But it is the blind beggar who wins Jesus over and gets what he wants. The blind beggar shows us our proper disposition before Christ and his question. We too are poor, blind beggars. We too need to come before God in our brokenness, helplessness, blindness and poverty. We too need to call out to Christ to take pity on us. If we dare renounce our egos and selfishness, and beg for God’s help, we too will hear God ask, “What do you want me to do for you?”

The question is beautiful because it not only shows God’s desire to help us, but it reveals the very nature of God. In Jesus, we have a God who is humble, loving and generous, a God who longs to serve humanity, especially in its brokenness, poverty and blindness. Jesus said he came “not to be served but to serve.” With this question, we see once more how serious he is.

Like all the questions of Jesus, this one requires reflection, not a hasty response. Do we want to sit beside God in heaven in powerful domination over others, like the selfish male disciples did? Do we want eternal life as if it is our rightful inheritance, as if we deserve it, as if we are the great, worthy elite? Or do we recognize our poverty, brokenness, helplessness and blindness–our need for God, our need for vision–and want simply to see again, to see God face to face?

If we come before God as the broken beggars we are, we can trust that Christ will restore our vision, and, like Bartimaeus, we will see God.

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